You spend years, always having someone by your side. (Even if they're not there emotionally, they are there physically-sorta... basically there is a person you've got claim on, and they've got claim on you.) You have a person. Then you're divorced and you don't have a person anymore.
You're thrust into a world that you haven't been in for years and guess what? All the rules have changed since you last played the game.
It sucks.
And the minute you open your heart up (even a tiny bit) in hopes of finding a new person... it can get crushed. Trust me, this is how it works. It must be part of the new rule book or something.
So then you have to decide... take the chance that your heart will get crushed... or be incredibly lonely... both are awful. Both agonizingly painful.
But...keep in mind, if you don't take that chance, your chance of finding that special person go way down. It's risky. But one day, it will pay off. That's the hope anyway.
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