Flirting 101

I love reading self help books, they fascinate me and I actually do find them super helpful.

...yes they can be a little cheesy at times, but they are really so great.

I have this one, that looks like it could be from the 70's or 80's, and it's about flirting.

I love it!

The intro to this lovely gem reminds its readers that a true flirt isn't viewed by others as a flirt. This I like! Stealthy flirting, genius!

Basically a truly talented flirt is simply a friendly person. They're not creepy and don't obviously flirt, they're just nice, pleasant people.

Here's the other thing I found interesting, this book says to flirt with everyone. Again, it's really genius. See here's the thing I'm learning about flirting is you don't just flirt for romantic purposes.

Flirting offers a way to connect with people and build a network. And of course, there should be some romantic flirting, but not with everyone.

The cool thing, is that by building this huge network of people, you have a bigger pool of people to choose from, when you're ready to dive in romantically.

Pretty cool idea, and it makes sense.

This is the end of the lesson for today, no worries, I'll have more soon!